About the souls of soulmates

Don't get me wrong. In my last posting I didn't mean with soulmates, that you must be an odd person meeting a person with the same odd things. Our attributes make only our surface. What I mean goes deeper.
Let us assume, our behavior is like it is, because of a voyage of our soul. I think, it's imaginable, that your smart soul intend something. Everything is like it is and happens like it does, because your soul want something special. In all probability she want to develop and progress.
Apart from that, every soul cultivates another habit in the same situation or significant event (because of their individual goal). As a consequence: When there are very similar habits, it's possible that the souls, that made they up are very similar - even related.