What are soulmates?

Ok, I guess, I was a little bit fast to say there is no more to say about love. Actually there is something more. I thought a lot about the soulmate thing in the last 5 years. What the hell is it all about? And why it works so bad? There must be a sense on it, don't you think? It is in the world, so it has to make sense.

So, here is my statement:

1. If you've met a person, who was make you thinking, that is a soul mate, than you are not nuts, it's not only an imagination or a hope or a hormone thing. If you perceive your own characteristic traits in the other, than is it your soulmate! If you both agree on it, it is another symptom.
2. Falling in love with your soulmate is not a miracle. It's never happened to you before, that you feel so very understanded and accepted.
3. It doesn't work as a partnership for the same reasons you love him or her. You perceive exactly these attributes in him or her, that distinguishes you from the rest of human beings and causes the misunderstanding of you by the others. These attributes are mostly corporate remarkableness, kinks, odd things, extraordinary habits or behaviors, fears of the same things or for the same reasons and stuff like that. At least one or all of it will makes it impossible.

So, it seems we need urgently a partner, whose odd things differs a lot from ours :-)